You are what you are...

You are what you are and not what others think of you. Then, why do we feel lost and hurt when someone believes you are wrong and you have no words to prove yourself. Can one mistake, intentional or unintentional, define your character? How many years will you be admonished for something you are not responsible for? Life is to live...forget about what others think. If you believe in yourself, nothing and no one can take away your self-respect. There is nothing more important than your opinion about yourself. The day you lose your self-respect is the day you lose yourself. Dont let that happen to you.

Why oh why?

How much are we responsible for what others feel or do? Why is a female always told that she can be substituted with maids? Can a wife, a mother, a daughter-in-law substituted with a maid? While, a daughter, a sister or a female friend can't. Why can't men understand that if a female is doing house work, even then she cant be substituted with a maid. Dont know when this patriarchial mindset will change!